So you’ve already gone way past the getting-to-know-each-other phase. By now you’re already comfortable with each other, and you know what makes each other tick. But if you’ve already gotten caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, don’t you think it’s time to rekindle the sparks and think of some romantic date ideas to keep the romance alive in your relationship? After all, dates are not just for those who are just trying to see if they’re meant to be in a relationship. Dates are also for couples who want to rediscover and enjoy each other even after a long time of being together.
Devote a day for your date
If both of you are always busy, then there’s even more of a need to go on a date because you probably don’t get to do fun and romantic things together anymore as much as you did when you started out as a couple. Take the time to clear your calendar and talk about who is doing the organizing and what needs to be done. You can go out and have a picnic at the park, or watch a production at the local community theater.
Have a fun night out
Having dinner and seeing a movie on a date may seem cliche, but this formula works. You just have to know how to make the most out of it. Pick a movie that both of you will enjoy, then make sure that you sit side by side at a restaurant so that dinner will be more intimate. You might even consider doing something different such as stargazing together or going to a restaurant with a dance floor or karaoke bar so the two of you can dance and sing the night away.
Freeze memories in photographs
Grab a camera and ask people to take your photo at different times during your day or night out. You can even kiss or hug in some of the shots, or simply smile while looking into the camera or into each other’s eyes. You can then make a scrapbook out of the photos you like the most, or make a slide show that you can look at from time to time to remind you of the good times you’ve had together.
Reminisce, reconnect, relive
Take a trip down memory lane and reminisce about what happened during your first date with your partner. Doing this may even help you remember memories that you’ve long ago forgotten. You can even talk about how you felt during that day and what your thoughts were as the date started and ended. These perfect dating activities can also be a good way to remind yourself and your partner that even though you’ve both come far, you can still learn a lot about yourselves and your relationship.